Advice to woman's talk and choice of husband

女人应该嫁才子还是君子?
女子对君子，如同穿了晚礼服出场，自是华贵雍容，得处处到位。瑟缩了，小家子气，过了又是张狂，那须得正点、正拍，拘束只有你自己才能体会。而女子对才子，就像让你换上了休闲装，随随便便，舒舒坦坦，如果你的形象气质配得上这款休闲装，自有另一番风景韵致，配不上就是别扭，就向大观园里满头菊花的刘姥姥，可笑滑稽。
君子与才子，自是男人堆里最亮丽的两道风景，是冠军天下的好山好水。倘若山水不可兼得，我们是爱君子还是选择爱才子？
与君子恋爱是件尴尬事，大凡君子都会有太多的清规戒律，你若爱得深了，他只使你哀怨；你若爱得浅，两人倒可以浅在一处，只是，这样的爱情不是生涩就是了无生趣，不过，能嫁君子是你的福分，因为，君子大多事业家庭并重甚至把家庭摆在第一位。他黎明即起，出门挣钱，下班即回，回家陪你，如有应酬，也是先请示、后汇报，中途时刻想溜号。你将有一个不离不弃的好老公。
再说才子，古往今来这样的人很多，如苏东坡、唐伯虎。他必会与你墙头马上，人约黄昏，说不尽的缠绵，道不尽的浪漫，外加百分百的紧张刺激，爱情面包都有了。不过，女人要爱才子，就得是非同一般的女人，可上天，可入地，只搞得地暗天昏。
其实还有第三种抢手男人，是谓公子。如贾宝玉，段誉之流，现代时尚版的查尔斯王子、小肯尼迪等，公子的两大特征是家底辉煌，人也多情，行止翩翩，似君子亦似才子，真个是君子风范，才子底蕴。只可惜这类人等乃天生罕物，把他们碾成粉末，天之下的痴女怨女也分不得一屑，所以不说也罢。
综和上面所述女子应与才子恋爱，与君子结婚，做大头梦想公子。如果你全搞错了，比如说跟君子谈情，你多半得做怨妇；跟才子结婚，你等着做弃妇；想跟公子恋爱或结婚，怕等到老都难，只能做个老姑娘了。
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10件事女人千万别与男人谈

不要没完没了地劝他争取升官加薪或“跳槽”。很显然，有这种想法的女人往往有很强的虚荣心。不要谈及男士在家庭中担任什么“角色”，因为他在潜意识中仍认为搞家务有损男性“大丈夫”的尊严。
1、不要谈论他的“腰围”。

2、不要对他的“浪漫观点”加以揶揄，这会伤害他的自尊心。

3、不要把他的饮食习惯或不良嗜好作为话题公开谈论.他向你倾诉的事，并非要你广告街坊、朋友，男性最忌伴侣在朋友面前经常提及他的“秘密”，尤其是他的坏习惯。

不过，你不妨在别人面前称赞一下他的优点，例如工作出色，衣着品位高，厨艺十分精湛。

4、不要对比他的缺点来夸奖另一位男士，他会感到被看不起和被奚落。男性通常对同性缺乏安全感，若你提及与别的男士的优点来和他作比较，可能会令他忐忑不安。因此尽量少拿丈夫跟别的男人做比较，应让他觉得自己比其他男人优秀。

5、看见漂亮女人，他如果多看两眼，你如果冷嘲热讽，他会极不高兴。每个男人都喜欢美女，不管他嘴上承不承认。聪明的女人会这样鞭策男友，主动指着接上的一个美女问男友：她漂亮不？(千万别问，她比我漂亮不？切记！！)矫正效果会比全智贤那套更好。

6、千万别当面批评他的母亲，这样会伤害他的感情。动不动就“你妈怎么着……”、“我比你妈强多了”的妻子让丈夫望而生畏，要记住，永远不要想表现得比他妈还贤惠。
7、不要谈及男士在家庭中担任什么“角色”，因为他在潜意识中仍认为搞家务有损男性“大丈夫”的尊严。
8、不要谈他的“秃顶”，这会让他心生恐惧感，生怕在女性眼中失去吸引力。

9、不要追问他“私房钱”的用途之类的事。男人不仅需要私房钱来消费烟酒，更需要足够的活动经费来满足日常的应酬；私房钱，已不仅仅预示着男女平等，更是精神危机下的物质依托。
10、不要没完没了地劝他争取升官加薪或“跳槽”。很显然，有这种想法的女人往往有很强的虚荣心，所谓“夫荣妻贵”；此外，她们往往还有很强的依附心理，所谓“只有藤缠树，哪有树缠藤”。

为了满足她们的虚荣心和依赖性，她们不惜给丈夫施加各种压力。当然，鼓励丈夫发奋图强并没有错，但是，如果不根据实际情况，制造压力，可能会适得其反。

I wish to grow older with you

The Original Love That has never changed, The young may feel strange; The Silver hair shows it’s tested and purified like gold by fire;This love cannot be bought or dired; Will it SIMPLY go off fire?
I have tried sit,walk,run and dance;I think now I NEED JOGGING!

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TITLE: Beauty is in eyes of beholder,Virtues is intrinsic character, both are good but which is better?

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Once one marys, "the question and answer"(arguement) will pop up sooner or later!

In my lifetime "re-search" I discover :NO SATISFYING CONSISTENT PARAMETERS!!!! The following ONLY PART OF SOLUTION/ANSWER:

SINCE husband and wife are always two together,

A healthy home must have a good set of DOUBLE BED & DINING TABLE;

Never ask :Which/what/who is BETER for bread and butter?AND COMPARE which/what's BEST among breakfast(the early encounter),lunch( at the time of hot weather) and dinner(even the occasional last supper before going for slumber);

Afterall in reality what WE NEED is A GOOD WHOLESOMEMEAL for the hunger;

Never indulge into all sort of SENSES allowing one's mind to be over-pampered with the tempation about flavour ;

This is to double sure (THERE IS NO GASTRIC STOMACH ) the relationship isn't hamperred,

Otherwise the walk will start to stagger( Grrrrrrrrrr... ) and likely to tumble;

Everything in life for the living depends much on the unpredictable weather.

If you doubt uncle(because still young) check it out with your father and mother!

Yes,UNCLE's SPOUSE IS THE LIFETIME QUESTION(in my RE-search) but AUNTY IS ALSO PART OF UNCLE's LIFETIME ANSWER!

Afterall UNCLE only needs a partner,and I know even Uncle is "clever" and "good " neverthelss with "the coconut" still can falter and no better;

In a way I 've sweet-sour meat rather than plain bread with butter,

(so one has to eat his/her own pie,or else wait till he/she dies)

Since I realise THERE CAN NEVER BE An EXACT ANSWER(to the questions in my "research", NOT LIKE MATHEMATIC 1+ 1=2 , 1+1 CAN BE INFINITY !)

and "BETTER" PARTNER in my walk(I do not need to shoulder her and having the uderstanding that I am also part of the weather,i FELL VERY FORTUNATE and thank God i AM NOT "TRAPPED" BY WOMAN'S BRRrrrrrrrrr POWER),

So just in vain wasting my time(time=life) doing my research(search again and again why this and why that)beyond my "coconut" can offer.

.....Every marriage is a mistake, or else is full of blunders,

Therefore a home starts with 2 different entity in a bundle(anology:Cat/dog,duck/hen),No surprise it is supposed to be duet by 2 different singers but now WITH THE RING they are legally entitled 'fighting" with each other .

Once marriage is entered, the life contract gotto be honoured;

The deal is thus settled(note: The umpire cannot settle,still is regarded as settled BUT very soon there will be another reheasal)

Friends, rather to work out the reality(according to the terms in contract) than to argue with fate and grumble;

Please dont even blame the match-maker, it is the I SUKA-AND-YOU-SUKA matter!

Sad or happy: Every one HAS A WALK TO REMEMBER! No best not even being better!

WARNING: We all men don't laugh, careful, woman always carrys a mirror! if not camera!.

(Going through all these videos as an "ADDICTOR",I deduce among THE SIT,THE WALK,even THE RUN, I would prefer to relax in heaven with the orange juice under the sun )